So as I was at the computer today Toby was pecking at me and as I was trying to shoo him away to go do something else he says this to me..."Mom I'm bored, I'm bored out...You've ruined me Mom." I don't know if that is as funny to anyone as it is me. I've kind of been feeling that lately I have been ruining him, so the fact that he has picked up on it already at 4 just confirms the fact that whatever he fails at in life will definitely be my fault. I didn't think it would be so obvious until he was like strung out on drugs or in jail at 15, but I guess it's already apparent. I'm so sorry Toby that I've ruined you.